Sensitivity and perceptive quotient dictates how vulnerable an individual can be. One realizes that it’s a blessing – only after wallowing in all sorts of feelings for quite a significant amount of time and after making sense of – what’s the purpose of these traits that enable us to soak it all in at an unfathomable depth. Like any wise soul would say, all emotions are meant to serve a purpose.
If that’s the case then above two qualities basically improves empathy within all of us when utilized in right proportions. We tend to understand before we judge any person or situation. We start to unknowingly walk a mile in his/her shoes/heels before passing our grand conclusion comments. We also learn to be kind to our own selves and more tolerant of our ambience. Simply put, ‘acceptance’ will be on the rise and ‘over-analysis’ will see a decline. Bliss we experience will be at an all-time high.
We become more comfortable and cool while connecting with others thereby allowing another human to be at ease and in-return they start to confide in us gradually. This improves the overall bond and support system that we all are in dire need of. Irrespective of whether we understand or not, we are all in it together.
Also, we get inclined towards creativity as we organically feel the need to stimulate our senses on a regular basis thereby pushing our mind towards matters that matter to us the most. Urge to express becomes evident and there is a calm confidence in the daily genuine gup-shup.
When we are sensitive and perceptive, authentic insights from all the consumed information belongs solely to us and we own it up in style. Our interpretations are intelligently tuned to what works for us. We don’t look for borrowed knowledge to validate our comprehension. Also, there is a heightened sense of longing for experimentation and open-mindedness to explore anything and everything before turning it down.
Our intuitiveness improves and we effortlessly start to deal with things happening within and around us with much more compassion and kindness. If received and given sincerely then we all realize how sexy kindness can be. We slowly become a better judge of what is meant for us and what is not, when and how much to ‘hold on’ and to what extent ‘let-go’. We evolve and gracefully reach a fine balance approach towards everything.
We understand that what is meant to be will bring in a certain amount of peace and comes naturally to us. If something is disturbing us to the core then probably we are not cut out for it. Only our own heart and head knows the answer. This can apply to a skill, profession, relationships, finance or as simple as daily chores planning etc. Discretion to make the above differentiation sharpens when we keep on sensitizing ourselves with right nutrition for both our body and mind. Be mindful of choice of words as they become our truth and can imprison us.
After sometime, we start to feel – ghoom firke there are only that many concepts that can make us all progressive, such as – Accept and be yourself, Non-judgmental, Be kind than right, Adapt and stay relevant, Eradicate extreme emotions, Balance is the key, We all have our own unique journey and so don’t compare, Value what you have yani have gratitude, Curb conditioning etc bla bla bla…We are all quite aware of the list. Then, next obvio query will be – why so much halla about hammering home the same old above mentioned pointers in different narratives that can move us and cement it again and again.
Simply because we know them as words but we have not and may be can’t feel all of it in true sense and spirit all the time. We all tend to forget when it comes to applying above thoughts on a daily basis. So, the effort to improve sensitivity and perceptiveness should be an ongoing process. The by-product – majorly our own ‘fresh perspective’ is worth fighting for. Being vulnerable is an act of valor as it requires one to be secure in oneself and self -assured